To the NICU Mom Who Blames Herself
I know your child’s birth and the days that followed weren’t like you imagined when you became pregnant. I know that on the day your baby was born, after you blew a kiss goodnight to him in the NICU, you headed back to your room, and, as you tried to sleep, you heard the cry of a healthy, normal baby in the room next door, being calmed and snuggled and fed by his mother, while your baby was on oxygen on a different floor, weeks away from being able to eat on his own.